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Prince Henrik's final wish before his death revealed: How Queen Margrethe honored his last request


It was a deeply symbolic tribute to the place where their life together officially began.


Prince Henrik's final wish before his death revealed: How Queen Margrethe honored his last request© Luc Castel
Daniel NeiraSenior Writer
UPDATED JUNE 29, 2026 3:09 PM EDT

Queen Margrethe II's love story with Prince Henrik was one of Europe's most enduring royal romances. Although their relationship faced public challenges over the years, their decades-long marriage remained defined by deep affection and mutual devotion. 

Now, nearly eight years after Henrik's death, their eldest grandson, Count Nikolai, has shared a previously unknown detail about the prince's final farewell.

Count Nikolai has revealed new details about Prince Henrik's final wish in his latest documentary series.© Luc Castel
Count Nikolai has revealed new details about Prince Henrik's final wish in his latest documentary series.

In his new documentary series, Nikolai reveals how Prince Henrik's ashes were scattered in one of the gardens at Fredensborg Palace. The same royal residence where the couple celebrated their wedding banquet after marrying in 1967. 

For the Danish royal family, it was a deeply symbolic tribute to the place where their life together officially began.

A love story that changed Denmark's monarchy:

Queen Margrethe, who reigned from 1972 until her abdication in 2024, met French diplomat Henri de Laborde de Monpezat while studying in London. Their romance blossomed despite coming from different worlds, and they married in 1967.

Prince Henrik requested that his ashes be divided between Fredensborg Palace and Danish waters, a wish that was ultimately fulfilled.© PEER PEDERSEN
Prince Henrik requested that his ashes be divided between Fredensborg Palace and Danish waters, a wish that was ultimately fulfilled.

Over the next five decades, Henrik became the Queen's closest companion and strongest supporter as she led Denmark through one of the longest reigns in the country's history. 

Together they welcomed two sons, King Frederik X and Prince Joachim, and later became grandparents to eight grandchildren.

Picture taken in 1969 shows then Princess Margrethe of Denmark and Prince Henrik presenting their little newborn Prince Joachim while older brother Crown Prince Frederik looks on, at Fredenborg Castle, Denmark. © ALLAN MOE
Picture taken in 1969 shows then Princess Margrethe of Denmark and Prince Henrik presenting their little newborn Prince Joachim while older brother Crown Prince Frederik looks on, at Fredenborg Castle, Denmark.


Margrethe often spoke openly about marrying for love rather than duty.

"Marriage is about two people understanding each other and still being able to surprise one another from time to time. I never wanted to marry without love simply so I could become queen, because that would have deceived both my parents and Denmark," she once said.

Queen Margrethe and Prince Henrik shared one of Europe's longest and most enduring royal love stories, spanning more than five decades of marriage.© Luc Castel
Queen Margrethe and Prince Henrik shared one of Europe's longest and most enduring royal love stories, spanning more than five decades of marriage.

The prince's final wish:

Following Prince Henrik's death in 2018, the Danish Royal House announced that his final wishes would be honored.

Part of his ashes would be placed in an urn in the private gardens of Fredensborg Palace, while the remaining ashes would be scattered in Danish waters. At the time, the palace said the royal family had gathered privately for both ceremonies and that no further details would be made public.

Following Prince Henrik's death in 2018, Queen Margrethe ensured his final wishes were honored alongside the Danish royal family.© Luc Castel
Following Prince Henrik's death in 2018, Queen Margrethe ensured his final wishes were honored alongside the Danish royal family.

Now, Count Nikolai has revealed that the second ceremony took place in the Øresund Strait, one of Denmark's most historically and symbolically important waterways.

The revelation adds new meaning to Henrik's farewell, connecting him permanently to both the palace where his royal journey began and the waters that have long shaped Denmark's history.

A complicated role within the monarchy:

Prince Henrik's later years were marked by frustration over his royal title. Although he served as Prince Consort for decades, he publicly expressed disappointment that he was never granted the title of King Consort.

The royal couple's romance began in London before culminating in their 1967 wedding, laying the foundation for Denmark's modern royal family.© JOERGEN JESSEN
The royal couple's romance began in London before culminating in their 1967 wedding, laying the foundation for Denmark's modern royal family.

"For many years I have been Denmark's number two, and I've been satisfied with that role, but I don't want to be relegated to number three after so many years," Henrik said toward the end of his life.

Despite those tensions, the Queen ensured his final wishes were carried out exactly as he had requested. During his funeral, Margrethe visibly broke down in tears while reading the liturgy and, despite being Denmark's sovereign, bowed before her husband's coffin in one of the ceremony's most emotional moments.

Queen Margrethe reacts after unveiling a bust of her husband Prince Henrik created by Faroese artist and sculptor Hans Pauli Olsen as she attends the inauguration of the new Prins Henriks Skole in Frederiksberg.© IDA MARIE ODGAARD
Queen Margrethe reacts after unveiling a bust of her husband Prince Henrik created by Faroese artist and sculptor Hans Pauli Olsen as she attends the inauguration of the new Prins Henriks Skole in Frederiksberg.

Count Nikolai continues to preserve his grandfather's legacy:

Among Prince Henrik's grandchildren, Count Nikolai shared one of the closest relationships with his grandfather. Over the years, he has regularly honored Henrik's memory through social media by posting previously unseen family photographs and even recreating images originally taken by the late prince.

Count Nikolai discusses life after the 2023 decision that stripped him of his princely title.© Nina Franova
Count Nikolai has continued preserving Prince Henrik's legacy by sharing family memories and previously unseen photographs over the years.

Many of those memories were made at the family's beloved Château de Cayx vineyard in southern France, where Henrik spent some of his happiest moments away from royal protocol.

With this latest revelation, Nikolai has once again highlighted the enduring bond between his grandparents. Showing that, despite public disagreements and the passing of time, the love between Queen Margrethe and Prince Henrik remained at the heart of their remarkable royal story.