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Selena Gomez skips Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz’s vow renewal: Are they still friends?


For years, the trio were practically inseparable, with Gomez famously joking in 2023 that they were in a “throuple”


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Shirley GomezSenior Writer
AUGUST 13, 2025 2:24 PM EDT

Selena Gomez’s no-show at Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz’s lavish vow renewal on August 2 has left fans and celebrity watchers speculating about a possible rift in one of Hollywood’s most photogenic friendships.

For years, the trio were practically inseparable, with Gomez famously joking in 2023 that they were in a “throuple” after celebrating New Year’s together in Mexico. 

Selena Gomez, Nicola Peltz Beckham and Brooklyn Peltz Beckham attend the Academy Museum of Motion Pictures 3rd Annual Gala Presented by Rolex at Academy Museum of Motion Pictures on December 03, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Stefanie Keenan/Getty Images for Academy Museum of Motion Pictures)© Stefanie Keenan
Selena Gomez, Nicola Peltz Beckham and Brooklyn Peltz Beckham attend the Academy Museum of Motion Pictures 3rd Annual Gala Presented by Rolex at Academy Museum of Motion Pictures on December 03, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Stefanie Keenan/Getty Images for Academy Museum of Motion Pictures)

Social media was once flooded with their cozy snaps, matching outfits, and affectionate captions. But at the vow renewal, Selena’s seat was conspicuously empty, and the silence since has been louder than any official statement.

From Public Declarations to Radio Silence

In the past, Gomez quickly posted gushy birthday and anniversary messages for Brooklyn and Nicola, even sharing supportive words during Nicola’s rumored tension with the Beckham family. But this time, she didn’t acknowledge the milestone event publicly, skipped liking any posts about it, and instead shared Instagram photos from another wedding she attended just days before alongside her fiancé, Benny Blanco.

US singer and actress Selena Gomez (C) leaves with Brooklyn Beckham (L) ad his wife Nicola Peltz Beckham after attending the French L1 football match between Paris Saint-Germain (PSG) and Olympique de Marseille (OM) at The Parc des Princes Stadium in Paris on September 24, 2023. (Photo by FRANCK FIFE / AFP) (Photo by FRANCK FIFE/AFP via Getty Images)© AFP via Getty Images
US singer and actress Selena Gomez (C) leaves with Brooklyn Beckham (L) ad his wife Nicola Peltz Beckham after attending the French L1 football match between Paris Saint-Germain (PSG) and Olympique de Marseille (OM) at The Parc des Princes Stadium in Paris on September 24, 2023. (Photo by FRANCK FIFE / AFP) (Photo by FRANCK FIFE/AFP via Getty Images)

Adding to the intrigue, several people connected to Selena, including her friend Dominic West and her former assistant Theresa Mingus, were there. That only fueled speculation that her absence was intentional rather than logistical.

Possible Strains Behind the Scenes

According to one source speaking to the Daily Mail, Selena had once been Nicola’s emotional support during her fallout with the Beckhams, but hinted that the dynamic may have shifted: “Maybe she has got fed up with that now.”

Another insider maintained that Selena is still there for Nicola privately, claiming she’s been distracting her with chats about her upcoming wedding to Benny Blanco and regularly checking in. 

: Selena Gomez, Nicola Peltz and Brooklyn Beckham attend the Ligue 1 Uber Eats match between Paris Saint-Germain and Olympique de Marseille at Parc des Princes on September 24, 2023 in Paris, France. (Photo by Lionel Hahn/Getty Images)© Getty Images
: Selena Gomez, Nicola Peltz and Brooklyn Beckham attend the Ligue 1 Uber Eats match between Paris Saint-Germain and Olympique de Marseille at Parc des Princes on September 24, 2023 in Paris, France. (Photo by Lionel Hahn/Getty Images)

The Beckham Family’s Absences

Selena wasn’t the only one missing from the guest list. David, Victoria, and Brooklyn’s siblings, Romeo, Cruz, and Harper, were absent. The extended family reportedly only learned about the vow renewal online.

Rumors suggest Brooklyn’s brothers have been engaging in some light trolling on social media, which may have contributed to strained relations. One friend told The Mirror they’ve been “fanning the flames” with teasing comments online.

A Friendship That Started With Glitz and Glam

Selena and Nicola first met at the Academy Museum Gala in late 2022 and hit it off instantly. Within months, they were vacationing together, wearing matching clothes, and even debuting “angel” tattoos. Brooklyn and Selena’s friendship dates back to 2015.

 (L-R) Selena Gomez and Nicola Peltz Beckham attend the Academy Museum of Motion Pictures 3rd Annual Gala Presented by Rolex at Academy Museum of Motion Pictures on December 03, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Stefanie Keenan/Getty Images for Academy Museum of Motion Pictures)© Getty Images for Academy Museum
(L-R) Selena Gomez and Nicola Peltz Beckham attend the Academy Museum of Motion Pictures 3rd Annual Gala Presented by Rolex at Academy Museum of Motion Pictures on December 03, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Stefanie Keenan/Getty Images for Academy Museum of Motion Pictures)

When Brooklyn appeared on The Jennifer Hudson Show in March 2023, he gushed about Selena, saying he loved when his wife made “really great friends” and that they “all get along.”

Whether Selena’s absence signals a deeper divide or just a scheduling conflict, it’s clear that the days of constant social media tributes are on pause. Celebrity friendships often operate in cycles, and this could be nothing more than a quiet chapter in an otherwise close bond.

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