Queen Máxima speaks on her mother’s dementia for first time: “It’s very painful”


During a visit to Limburg, Queen Máxima opens up about her mother’s dementia, revealing the emotional toll of the illness on her life.


Queen Máxima Speaks on Her Mother’s Dementia for First Time© Getty Images
MAY 19, 2026 7:27 PM EDT

Over the weekend, Queen Máxima of the Netherlands turned 55, and this Tuesday she once again showed why she remains the queen of bold colors and statement accessories. In fact, those two style hallmarks defined the look she wore this Tuesday, May 19, in Central Limburg, a region bordering Belgium and Germany, where she visited Maasgouw, Echt-Susteren, Roerdalen, and Roermond alongside King Willem-Alexander. Among other priorities, the goal of the visit was to focus on cross-border cooperation and quality of life in towns and cities.

Queen Máxima during her visit to Limburg, where she shared a rare personal moment.© Getty Images
Queen Máxima during her visit to Limburg, where she shared a rare personal moment.

Her visit to Limburg included a deeply moving and candid moment, as it marked the first time Máxima has spoken publicly about her mother María del Carmen Cerruti’s dementia. The Queen of the Netherlands showed her most human side in Limburg while speaking with and offering support to informal caregivers, friends or family members who look after vulnerable loved ones.

A powerful and emotional visit as Máxima opens up about her mother’s illness.© Getty Images
A powerful and emotional visit as Máxima opens up about her mother’s illness.

According to Dutch outlet AD, Máxima approached a man named Aloysius, who shared with her the challenges he faces caring for his mother, who has dementia. “My mother also has dementia; it’s a very painful situation,” she said, speaking for the first time about an illness that also affects her daily life.

Máxima isn’t going through this alone; she’s navigating this difficult chapter alongside her brothers, Juan and Martín, but the distance from Argentina makes it all the more painful. The last time she was able to travel to her home country was over the Christmas holidays, when she was joined by King Willem-Alexander and their three daughters.

María del Carmen Cerruti, mother of Queen Máxima, whom the monarch recently revealed is living with dementia.© Getty Images
María del Carmen Cerruti, mother of Queen Máxima, whom the monarch recently revealed is living with dementia.

In September 2024, the monarch traveled to the Río de la Plata to celebrate her mother’s 80th birthday, making it clear that whenever her schedule allowed, she would make the long journey to be with her family. At the same time, Cerruti spends extended periods with her daughter and granddaughters at Huis ten Bosch, the royal family’s official residence in The Hague.

Maria Del Carmen Cerruti and Her Majesty Queen Beatrix arrive for the christening of baby girl Catharina-Amalia, daughter of Dutch Crown Prince Willem Alexander and Princess Maxima, on June 12, 2004, in The Hague.© Getty Images
Maria Del Carmen Cerruti and Her Majesty Queen Beatrix arrive for the christening of baby girl Catharina-Amalia, daughter of Dutch Crown Prince Willem Alexander and Princess Maxima, on June 12, 2004, in The Hague.

Her words confirm the quiet grief she’s carrying and the difficult emotional balancing act she’s managing in this deeply personal part of her life, far from the public eye of the palace.

Showing vulnerability around dementia wasn’t Queen Máxima’s only personal moment in Limburg; she also offered words of support to several Dutch citizens facing daily struggles with the disease.

King Willem-Alexander of the Netherlands and Queen Maxima of The Netherlands visit rollercoaster builder Vekoma during their visit to Limburg.© Getty Images
King Willem-Alexander of the Netherlands and Queen Maxima of The Netherlands visit rollercoaster builder Vekoma during their visit to Limburg.

For example, the monarch listened attentively to Henny, a man with an acquired brain injury who shared the debts he’s taken on as a result of his diagnosis. “I know how hard it is. And it’s nothing you should be ashamed of,” Máxima told him kindly, hoping to ease his sense of guilt and shame.

As AD reports, Queen Máxima spoke with several people, including an informal caregiver, a person with an acquired brain injury, and the mother of a daughter with a physical disability. All of them face the same challenges: complicated legislation and a sense of being invisible in society.

Queen Máxima Her Mother’s Dementia: “Very Painful”© Getty Images
Queen Máxima speaks publicly for the first time about her mother’s dementia, sharing a deeply personal moment during her visit to Limburg.

“I completely understand what you’re saying,” she said after hearing the stories of the people she met at the Don Camillo House of Charity in Roermond. “When everything is going well, life in the Netherlands is quite good. But when problems arise, things get complicated," the monarch added.

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