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Jennifer Lopez's night out with Oskar Muñiz and Ben Affleck's teen Fin sparks debate: Was this song meant for her ex?


Lopez and Affleck have continued to maintain a close blended-family dynamic despite ending their marriage.


Jennifer Lopez's night out with Oscar Muñiz and Ben Affleck's teen Fin sparks debate: Was this song meant for her ex?© NBC
Daniel NeiraSenior Writer
UPDATED JUNE 22, 2026 3:13 PM EDT

Jennifer Lopez enjoyed a night out at Ariana Grande's 'Eternal Sunshine' tour stop in Los Angeles over the weekend, but it wasn't just her dance moves that got people talking.

The singer was spotted in the crowd Saturday alongside her child, Oskar, and Ben Affleck's teen, Fin Affleck, as Grande performed her 2019 hit "Thank U, Next." 

The outing highlighted the close bond that remains between Lopez and Affleck's blended family following their split.© Backgrid/The Grosby Group
The outing highlighted the close bond that remains between Lopez and Affleck's blended family following their split.

In videos circulating online, Lopez enthusiastically sang along to the breakup anthem, waving her hands in a playful goodbye gesture as she belted out the lyrics.

Jennifer Lopez enjoyed Ariana Grande's Los Angeles concert alongside Oscar Muñiz and Ben Affleck's teen, Fin Affleck.© Backgrid/The Grosby Group
Jennifer Lopez enjoyed Ariana Grande's Los Angeles concert alongside Oscar Muñiz and Ben Affleck's teen, Fin Affleck.

The moment quickly caught fans' attention because of who was standing beside her. As Lopez leaned into the song's lyrics about moving on from former relationships, Oscar and Fin could be seen smiling and laughing nearby, adding another layer to a scene many viewers described as unintentionally hilarious.

The singer sparked conversation online after enthusiastically singing along to Ariana Grande's hit breakup anthem, "Thank U, Next."© Backgrid/The Grosby Group
The singer sparked conversation online after enthusiastically singing along to Ariana Grande's hit breakup anthem, "Thank U, Next."

Social media users were quick to point out the irony. After all, Lopez was singing one of pop culture's most famous breakup songs while attending the concert with the child of her most recent ex-husband. 

Fans couldn't help but notice the irony of Lopez singing "Thank U, Next" while attending the concert with Ben Affleck's teen.© Backgrid/The Grosby Group
Fans couldn't help but notice the irony of Lopez singing "Thank U, Next" while attending the concert with Ben Affleck's teen.

Some fans joked that the moment looked like something straight out of a movie, while others wondered whether the hand gestures and enthusiastic performance were a subtle nod to her own romantic history.

Jennifer Lopez spotted arriving at Jennifer Garner's house to drop off her daughter Emme and picks up Ben Affleck's son Samuel.© Grosby Group
The actress and singer has maintained a close relationship with Affleck's children despite the end of their marriage.

Not everyone saw it that way, however. Many defended the singer, arguing that "Thank U, Next" is the kind of song almost everyone sings at the top of their lungs at a concert. Others noted that Lopez and Affleck have continued to maintain a close blended-family dynamic despite ending their marriage.

The outing appeared to be another example of that relationship. Although Lopez and Affleck divorced in 2024 after two years of marriage, their children have remained close. During their relationship, the former couple successfully blended their families, and that bond appears to have continued long after their split.

Fin, Ben and Emme in a casual outing© The Grosby Group
Lopez and Affleck's blended family remains connected, with both stars continuing to spend time with one another's kids.

Lopez shares twins Oscar and Max with ex-husband Marc Anthony, while Affleck shares Violet, Fin, and Samuel with ex-wife Jennifer Garner.

The viral concert moment also arrives months after Lopez sparked headlines for joking about her love life during her Las Vegas residency. Earlier this year, she made a playful face after learning an audience member was named Ben, a moment many fans interpreted as a lighthearted reference to her former husband.

Jennifer Lopez arrives at Sam Affleck's graduation with her twins Max and Emme. © Grosby Group
Jennifer Lopez arrives at Sam Affleck's graduation with her twins.

The consensus online seems to be that the Ariana Grande concert was less about throwing shade and more about having fun. If anything, fans were struck by the sight of Lopez spending quality time with Oscar and Fin, who appeared to be having just as much fun as she was.

Whether viewers saw a little irony in the song choice or simply a pop star enjoying a pop classic, one thing was clear, the trio left the concert smiling.