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Princess Diana's brother Charles Spencer wants to correct one lasting myth about her


Charles Spencer recently published a memoir that has sparked much conversation in royal circles


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Maria LoretoSenior Writer
SEPTEMBER 22, 2026 5:54 PM EDT

Princess Diana is one of the most discussed figures of the 20th century. Due to her tragic death, involvement with royalty, and notorious divorce, many myths surround her. Her brother, Prince Charles, would like to lay one to rest. 

Diana, Princess of Wales wears a sapphire and diamond necklace, which was a gift from the Sultan of Oman, and the Spencer Tiara with a dress designed by Victor Edelstein to a banquet in Bonn, Germany  (Photo by Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images)© Tim Graham Photo Library via Get
Diana, Princess of Wales wears a sapphire and diamond necklace, which was a gift from the Sultan of Oman

The 9th Earl Spencer just published a memoir titled "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister," where he's shared his side of the story when it comes to Diana and the many stories that surrounded her. 

In an interview with PEOPLE, he wanted to get one thing straight: Diana had a happy childhood. 

“The childhood I remember us sharing was a really happy one,” he said. “Of course, there was the blight of my mother leaving home, but my father was a really caring father and made the house really joyful." 

Diana, Princess of Wales, wearing a cream satin dress by Gina Fratini with the Queen Mary Cambridge Lover's Knot Tiara and diamond earrings attends a banquet on April 29, 1983 © Anwar Hussein
Diana, Princess of Wales, wearing a cream satin dress by Gina Fratini with the Queen Mary Cambridge Lover's Knot Tiara and diamond earrings at a banquet in 1983

Charles revealed that he spoke to people who knew Diana when she was a young girl, discovering that others also shared that perspective. 

“We had a really lovely nanny called Sally and … she remembered Diana as this very happy little girl,” he said.

Still, he acknowledged that no one really knew what Diana was going through except herself. “So maybe there was stuff going on inside that was more personal than she was processing, but at the time I think we seemed very happy,” he said.

Charles' memoir has sparked a rare response from the Royal Palace

What King Charles allegedly said after Princess Diana’s death prompts rare Palace response© David Levenson
Prince Charles and Princess Diana in 1988

Published on September 22nd, "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister," features numerous stories about Diana, including some incendiary claims about Prince Charles, including a heated phone call debating whether Prince William and Prince Harry should walk behind their mother's coffin at her funeral. 

According to Spencer, he opposed the idea, while Charles believed the opposite. “Rest assured,” Charles reportedly told Spencer. "We’ll forget her soon enough!” 

“I can’t believe you just said that," Spencer reportedly replied. He then hung up the phone. 

The book's publication prompted Buckingham Palace to share a statement, something that they rarely do. “While we do not comment on books as a matter of principle, His Majesty is mindful that the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgment and colour memory in ways others do not recognise, even many years after such a loss,” said the palace spokesperson. 

Prince William and Prince Harry were 15 and 12 when they walked behind Princess Diana’s coffin during her funeral procession in September 1997.© Richard Baker
Prince William and Prince Harry were 15 and 12 when they walked behind Princess Diana’s coffin during her funeral procession in September 1997.