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Emma Heming was engaged to a different man when she met Bruce Willis


The couple got married in 2009 and now shares two daughters


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Maria LoretoSenior Writer
AUGUST 6, 2026 12:04 PM EDT

Emma Heming is opening up about the first time she met Bruce Willis. The couple, who have been married for almost 20 years, met at a gym and had an instant connection. In an appearance on the "Making Space" podcast, Heming revealed that she was engaged to a different man. 

Willis and Heming have been married for almost two decades© Getty Images
Willis and Heming have been married for almost two decades

“I met him in like 2005, I want to say, and we met at the gym, like most people in Hollywood do, I guess,” she said. “His time was before mine and we would sort of overlap, and the things I remember about him was just how warm and charismatic, how funny he was, but he always really took the time to want to learn more about me,” she added. “Just more about who I was, about my life, and prior to that I had never really thought about Bruce Willis.”

Heming revealed that while she knew of Willis' famous TV show "Moonlighting," she didn't know much of his other roles because she was never a fan of action movies. 

“So when I had noticed him, I had said to my mother ‘I met Bruce Willis, and he’s really a lovely man.’ And my mom was like, ‘What are you doing? You’re engaged to be married.' I said, ‘No, no, no’—yes, at the time, I was engaged to be married, but I had met him and I just noticed that," added Heming.

For Emma, their love story had always been “romantic and beautiful,” but as Bruce began showing subtle yet unsettling changes.© Pacific Press/LightRocket via Ge
The pair met back in 2007, at a gym in Los Angeles

While Heming and Willis knew each other for some time, it wasn't until "years later," after Heming's then relationship "fizzled" out, that the two finally went on a date. She looks back fondly at the time and their dynamic “I just really loved being around him,” she said. 

“There was just something very warm, safe and fun. My husband is just so full of life, and it was a really beautiful time. It was a really great time in our lives.”

Heming and Willis' life together

Rumer Willis, Demi Moore, Bruce Willis, Scout Willis, Emma Heming Willis and Tallulah Willis © Stefanie Keenan
Heming has a great relationship with her stepdaughters and Willis' ex, Demi Moore

Heming and Willis met in 2007 and got married two years later. They welcomed two daughters throughout their marriage: Mabel, born in 2012, and Evelyn, born in 2014. Heming and her daughters became involved in Willis' larger family dynamic, with them spending time with his ex Demi Moore and daughters Rumer, Scout and Tallulah, whom Willis and Moore had welcomed years before. 

Following Willis' diagnosis with FTD in 2022, Heming has turned to their family for support. “I really turn to my stepdaughters and Demi,” she said in an interview with The Times. “And they really are helping me navigate this.”

She also revealed the challenges of protecting Bruce’s environment.© Getty Images
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