Celebrity friends

Nina Dobrev and Paul Wesley's Vampire Diaries feud: He takes the blame


The pair worked together for years on the hit TV show


Nina Dobrev and Paul Wesley's Vampire Diaries feud: He takes the blame© Getty Images for InStyle
Maria LoretoSenior Writer
JULY 23, 2026 7:50 PM EDT

Nina Dobrev and Paul Wesley were a part of one of the biggest teen shows of the aughts. The two starred in "The Vampire Diaries," playing Elena and Stefan, the primary romantic couple. While the two are friends now, there was a rumored feud between them that Wesley is addressing now. 

Wesley was one of the hearthrobs of the era© Getty Images for Paramount+
Wesley was one of the hearthrobs of the era

In an appearance on "Call Her Daddy," Wesley accepts most of the blame. "I will take a lot of responsibility because I was a bit of a curmudgeon, grumpy, pain in the ass," he said. "I was like, 'I'm taking my acting seriously!'"

"It was me and nine other guys," Wesley said, revealing that he took a different approach to his relationship with Dobrev.

"I remember all these guys were kind of kissing her ass. I just was like, 'I'm not going to look at her. I'm not even going to acknowledge her 'cause I want to meet her in the audition. I want to meet her for the first time in the audition.' 'Cause our scene was us meeting for the first time."

Nina Dobrev debuts handsome new boyfriend following Shaun White split© GC Images
Nina Dobrev debuts handsome new boyfriend following Shaun White split

"I just remember being in the audition at Warner Brothers in front of all the executives and we looked at each other and it was just this immediate chemistry," he continued. "We were these two characters and it just was magical. So regardless of us not getting along, it somehow clicked." This resulted in the two butting heads on set. 

Dobrev and Wesley's relationship now 

Dobrev left on the sixth season of the series, with the two improving their relationship. "You know what, Nina? You're gonna miss me one day," recalled Wesley. When the two reunited on the series finale, Wesley said that he "missed having her around." 

Nina Dobrev and Paul Wesley's Vampire Diaries feud: He takes the blame© Getty Images for InStyle
Dobrev and Wesley worked together in 'The Vampire Diaries' for years

"And to this day, she's always like, 'I remember you said to me, 'You're going to miss me one day.' And you know what? You were right.'"

A decade later, the two are now close friends and are looking for projects to work together. "I absolutely adore her," concluded Wesley.

Paul Wesley and Natalie Kuckenburg © Stephane Cardinale - Corbis
He's dating Natalie Kuckenburg