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Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos attend the 2024 TIME100 Gala © Cindy Ord

Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos reveal the one thing every couple should do before having kids

The beloved TV duo, married for nearly three decades, shared their golden rule for lasting love


UPDATED JUNE 4, 2025 10:11 AM EDT

After 29 years of marriage, Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos have learned a thing or two about what makes a relationship work, and now they’re paying it forward. During a recent episode of Live With Kelly and Mark, the talk show host and her husband, best known for his role on Riverdale, offered some honest advice to a young couple preparing to walk down the aisle: travel together before starting a family.

The woman asked the experienced duo for some marriage advice, and one of Kelly’s main suggestions was "not to panic”. 

Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos co-host "Live with Kelly and Mark" for the last time at 7 Lincoln Square, featuring special guest Anderson Cooper with coverage airing on Tuesday, April 1, 2025. © Disney via Getty Images
Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos co-host "Live with Kelly and Mark"

She told the lady: “I’ve got so much advice…don’t panic.” Mark agreed, saying: “That’s right.” Kelly then revealed how the first year of her and Mark’s marriage was their “worst”, admitting she found it “really hard” at times.

She continued: “Like, never panic. Because… I don’t know; we’re going to speak for ourselves, but the first year of marriage was the worst for us. Like, it was really hard.”

Kelly then joked: “We discovered things about each other, like, ‘Oh my god, he breathes, and it sounds irritating to me!’ Do you know what I mean?”

The audience erupted into laughter, but Kelly reassured the young couple that they will “settle into each other” even if their first year of marriage feels “insurmountable”.

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She explained: “So, you have to just not panic because you’ll settle into each other. A lot of people find the first year insurmountable, and then it sort of deteriorates.”

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - MARCH 02: (L-R) Kelly Ripa and  Mark Consuelos attend the 97th Annual Oscars at Dolby Theatre on March 02, 2025 in Hollywood, California. (Photo by Kevin Mazur/Kevin Mazur/Getty Images) © Getty
Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos attend the 97th Annual Oscars

What’s more, Mark suggested to the young pair that they make time to see other places when their marriage is in its infancy. He said: “Travel! Travel. Go places before you have a family.” Kelly agreed, adding: “Travel, yes. Before you have kids, go everywhere.”

Mark and Kelly, who have three children, Michael, 28, Lola, 23, and 22-year-old Joaquin, also both joked that the young couple in their audience should make time to read the newspaper before starting a family.

Kelly Ripa and her daughter Lola Consuelos© INSTAGRAM/LOLA CONSUELOS
Kelly Ripa and her daughter Lola Consuelos

They said in unison: “And read the newspaper. Because you’ll never get to read the newspaper again.” Kelly then said: “And sleep in on the weekends.”

Mark and Kelly met in 1995 when they appeared opposite one another in the US soap opera ‘All My Children’, and they eloped and married just months later in May 1996.

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