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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle both ‘hate’ one royal phrase — a friend explains why


A friend of the couple spoke to a British outlet, revealing a common royal phrase that Harry and Meghan dislike


Prince Harry and Meghan Markle both ‘hate’ one royal phrase — and a friend explains why© WireImage
Maria LoretoSenior Writer
OCTOBER 20, 2026 6:16 PM EDT

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle have an issue with a term that's common in royal households. The couple, who recently returned to the UK, made their first joint public engagement earlier this month, appearing in Nottingham, where they reunited with various charitable organizations. 

NOTTINGHAM, ENGLAND - OCTOBER 15: Meghan, Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex greet well-wishers as they arrive at the Community Recording Studio (CRS).© Getty Images
Meghan and Harry were welcomed back by residents as they visited different charities in the area

As reported by The Times, Harry and Meghan hate the phrase "working royals." A friend of the couple told the outlet that they find the phrase "lazy." 

"He hates it, she hates it,” they continued. “They are not ‘working’ for the institution, but they are members of the royal family, and they work.  Their days are built around their family life and their work. She’s running a business seven days a week.” 

Britain's Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and his wife Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, greet wellwhishers as they leave after their visit to the Community Recording Studio (CRS)© AFP via Getty Images
Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, greet well-wishers as they leave after their visit to the Community Recording Studio (CRS) in Nottingham

The friend added that the Sussexes also dislike being referred to as "former royals." 

“Things like Nottingham aren’t done in the name of the institution or the crown, but Harry is the son of the King, he is still a member of the royal family, he’s just not a member of the institution," they said. "It’s misleading to call them ‘former royals’. It has an impact on how they’re perceived and the way people talk about them.”

More details about Harry and Meghan's joint official outing

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are moving back to the U.K. six years after royal exit© Justin Goff Photos
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are back to the U.K. six years after moving to the US

Meghan and Harry's first joint appearance was an emotional one, and a callback to 2017. They visited Nottingham, the place where they performed their first walkabout following the announcement of their engagement. 

“Everyone came away feeling really positive and genuinely thrilled by the love and support they received," said a spokesperson to PEOPLE.

Through their day in Nottingham, the couple visited numerous charities, including The Community Recording Studio, which provides young people access to music and recording facilities, and Hubb Community Kitchen, a group that became one of Meghan's first projects as a member of the royal family. 

“It’s been too long!” said Meghan after reuniting with some of the women.

It's been two weeks since the family's return to the UK, with their kids, Archie and Lilibet, settling into their new routines. The Nottingham outing marked their first joint outing and suggests the two will continue to work in the UK's public sphere.

King Charles reunites with Prince Harry, Meghan Markle, Archie and Lilibet during rare UK visit amid years of family tension© MeghanMarkle/Instagram
Earlier this year, King Charles reunited with Harry, Meghan and their kids, Archie and Lilibet