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Princess Kate’s surprisingly relatable confessions prove even a future Queen gets nervous


Kate candidly spoke about another challenge she faces in crowded public settings.


Princess Kate’s surprisingly relatable confessions prove even a future Queen gets nervous© Chris Jackson
Daniel NeiraSenior Writer
UPDATED SEPTEMBER 25, 2026 3:42 PM EDT

Princess Kate made a surprisingly relatable admission during a special tea party at Windsor Castle for participants of the Three Peaks Challenge and their families, revealing that appearing on television continues to give her butterflies.

Among the guests at the Sept. 15 gathering were Pete Haslam and his 11-year-old son Ted, whom the royal encountered during her own Three Peaks Challenge in June. 

Princess Kate has made a relatable confession about the nerves she still experiences despite years in the royal spotlight.© CHRIS JACKSON
Princess Kate has made a relatable confession about the nerves she still experiences despite years in the royal spotlight.

Ted, who was diagnosed with an aggressive spinal tumor at age three and is paralyzed from the waist down, completed the challenge with the help of a 17-person team that pushed and pulled his wheelchair up Britain's three highest peaks.

During their Windsor reunion, Kate revealed that she had since watched the father and son on television.

The Princess of Wales admitted that appearing on television is something that still makes her nervous.© The Prince and Princess of Wales
The Princess of Wales admitted that appearing on television is something that still makes her nervous.

"She told Ted that she saw us both on TV and asked if he got nervous," Pete told USA TODAY. According to Pete, the future queen then made a confession of her own. "I always get nervous when I go on TV."

It's an unexpectedly relatable admission from someone who has spent more than 15 years appearing in front of cameras and whose royal role regularly puts her on the world stage. But it isn't the first time Kate has acknowledged that nerves can get the better of her.

"We all get nervous"

During a visit to Leeds in January 2023, Kate encountered a man who admitted he was nervous while asking the princess for a selfie.

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Kate has previously reassured others about feeling anxious, once telling a nervous royal fan, “We all get nervous.”

"Please don't worry, it's OK," Kate reassured him. "We all get nervous." Public speaking was also something Kate admitted she found difficult during her early years as a working royal. After delivering one of her first major speeches in 2012, the then-Duchess of Cambridge acknowledged that she found giving speeches "nerve-racking."

More than a decade later, Kate candidly spoke about another challenge she faces in crowded public settings.

Kate embraced a timeless black-and-white palette in a checked Temperley London dress at the Royal Charity Polo Cup on July 10, 2026.© Max Mumby/Indigo
The mom of three has also been refreshingly open about experiencing “mum guilt” while raising Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis.

"I find these environments are really hard," the princess said during a Buckingham Palace reception in April 2026. "I've also got a very soft voice, so I always get told, 'Speak up a bit louder!'"

Kate has been candid about "mum guilt" too:

Kate's relatable admissions haven't been limited to royal engagements.The mom of Prince George, Princess Charlotte and Prince Louis opened up about the pressures of parenthood during a 2020 appearance on Giovanna Fletcher's Happy Mum, Happy Baby podcast.

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Kate once described facing the world’s cameras following Prince George’s birth as “slightly terrifying.”

Asked whether she experienced "mum guilt," Kate didn't hesitate. "Yes, absolutely," she replied, joking that "anyone who doesn't as a mother is actually lying."

She also recalled the enormous attention surrounding George's birth in 2013. Kate and Prince William famously stepped outside the Lindo Wing of St. Mary's Hospital to introduce their first child to the world just hours after his arrival.

Kate’s delicate leaf earrings were inspired by British ballerina Lauren Cuthbertson, creating an unexpected connection to Princess Diana’s love of ballet.© Mark Cuthbert
The future Queen has spoken candidly over the years about everything from public speaking nerves to the pressures of motherhood.

"Yeah, slightly terrifying," Kate said of facing the cameras. Despite the extraordinary circumstances of royal life, the princess said some of her happiest family experiences are remarkably ordinary.

"I think the things that really resonate with me most are the simple things," she said, pointing to moments like "watching a fire on a really rainy day."

A meaningful reunion at Windsor:

Kate's latest confession came during a particularly personal reunion. The princess completed the Three Peaks Challenge in June, scaling Ben Nevis, Scafell Pike and Snowdon within 24 hours to raise money for the Royal Marsden Cancer Charity. She crossed paths with Ted and his team while on Ben Nevis.

Princess Charlotte showcased one of her most grown-up looks yet as she joined her family after Kate Middleton completed the National Three Peaks Challenge.© princeandprincessofwales
Kate completed the demanding Three Peaks Challenge in June, describing it as “a chance to explore life beyond diagnosis and to give something back.”

Months later, their paths crossed again under very different circumstances at Windsor Castle, where Kate spent around 20 minutes catching up with the Haslam family. Pete described the tea party to USA TODAY as "a lovely experience." Kate later shared photos from the gathering, including one of her speaking with Ted.

"It was a pleasure to welcome other Three Peaks Challenge participants and their families to Windsor Castle," she wrote. "Behind every summit was a personal story of resilience, determination and hope."

Kate Middleton's Emotional Reunion After National Three Peaks Challenge© The Prince and Princess of Wales
The Princess of Wales recently hosted participants of the Three Peaks Challenge and their families for tea at Windsor Castle.

The challenge carried particular significance for the princess following her own cancer diagnosis and treatment. After completing the trek, Kate explained that she had undertaken it as "a chance to explore life beyond diagnosis and to give something back."

Her latest conversation with Ted also offered another glimpse of the woman behind the royal title. Even after countless engagements, speeches, interviews and appearances watched by millions, Kate still knows exactly what it feels like to get nervous when the cameras start rolling.