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Vanessa Bryant and Catherine McDonnell's friendship: How Kobe Bryant and Pau Gasol's wives bonded after tragedy

Vanessa Bryant recently shared a heartfelt tribute to her best friend


Shirley Gomez
Senior Writer
MAY 23, 2025 10:30 AM EDT

If you're looking for friendship goals, look no further than Catherine McDonnell and Vanessa Bryant. The two women, each strong, stylish, and fiercely loyal in her own right, have cultivated a sisterhood that transcends red carpets, basketball fame, and life's most brutal storms.

Vanessa Bryant recently shared a heartfelt tribute to her best friend, Catherine McDonnell, in a warm and vibrant Instagram Story. The post, featuring a sun-kissed selfie of the two, is a full-on love letter to friendship.

Vanessa Bryant and Catherine McDonnell's friendship© @vanessabryant
Vanessa Bryant and Catherine McDonnell's friendship

"Love doing life with you, bestie," Vanessa wrote. "The good times, the sad times, the fun times and the days full of laughter. You're like a little sister I never had. Love you, miss you and hope you have the best birthday. Xo."

Beyond the Glam: A Real Connection

Both Catherine and Vanessa live lives that are admired from afar: Catherine, a successful businesswoman and the wife of NBA star Pau Gasol; Vanessa, the philanthropist and matriarch of the legendary Bryant family. But strip away the fame, and what remains is two women who truly get each other.

They often support each other at events, travel together, and celebrate milestones, whether birthdays, holidays, or just Tuesday brunch. Their bond feels genuine, deep, and refreshingly real, from shared vacations to court-side moments.

Catherine McDonnell (Cat Gasol) and Vanessa Bryant attend the Basketball Women's Gold Medal match between Team France and Team USA on day sixteen of the Olympic Games Paris 2024 at Bercy Arena on August 11, 2024 in Paris, France. (Photo by Jean Catuffe/Getty Images)© Getty Images
Catherine McDonnell (Cat Gasol) and Vanessa Bryant attend the Basketball Women's Gold Medal match between Team France and Team USA on day sixteen of the Olympic Games Paris 2024 at Bercy Arena on August 11, 2024 in Paris, France. (Photo by Jean Catuffe/Getty Images)

The Bryants and Gasols have been inseparable since Kobe and Gianna Bryant's passing on January 26, 2020. In March 2025, they made new memories together on the slopes in a fun-filled ski trip, proving once again that their bond is stronger than ever.

Pau Gasol and Kobe Bryant had a great friendship beyond the basketball court. They were teammates on the Los Angeles Lakers for six seasons and shared a deep bond as friends and brothers.

Pau Gasol pens tribute for 'hermano' Kobe Bryant on anniversary of his death© GettyImages
Pau Gasol and Kobe Bryant

As a father himself, Pau deeply appreciates the significance of family bonds and the crucial role they play during both joyous and challenging times. With this understanding, he has committed to supporting the Bryant family in every way he can. During moments of sorrow, he has been steadfast, offering a compassionate shoulder for the girls to lean on. 

Pau has also provided them with strength and comfort, ensuring they feel loved and supported as they navigate their journey through grief. His dedication to being there for them goes beyond mere gestures; he genuinely invests his time and care, helping to foster a sense of security and hope amidst their struggles.

Pau Gasol, on the sideline with wife Catherine McDonnell and family, along with Lisa Leslie and Vanessa Bryant, during the United States of America v France, Women's Basketball Gold Medal Game at the Bercy Arena during the Paris 2024 Summer Olympic Games on August 11th, 2024 in Paris, France. (Photo by Tim Clayton/Corbis via Getty Images)© Corbis via Getty Images
Pau Gasol, on the sideline with wife Catherine McDonnell and family, along with Lisa Leslie and Vanessa Bryant, during the United States of America v France, Women's Basketball Gold Medal Game at the Bercy Arena during the Paris 2024 Summer Olympic Games on August 11th, 2024 in Paris, France. (Photo by Tim Clayton/Corbis via Getty Images)

His presence has helped Catherine McDonnell and Vanessa Bryant's friendship. Their connection is more than Instagrammable; it's aspirational. It's proof that with the right people by your side, even life's hardest chapters can be written with love, laughter, and a whole lot of matching sweatshirts.

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