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Taylor Swift's song 'Cancelled!' may hint at her friendship status with Blake Lively


Whispers of tension between Swift and Lively began swirling in late 2024


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Shirley GomezSenior Writer
OCTOBER 3, 2025 12:14 PM EDT

Taylor Swift has built a career on turning personal relationships into unforgettable anthems, and her 12th studio album, "The Life Of A Showgirl," is no exception. But it’s her track “Cancelled!” that has everyone buzzing. Fans pressed play expecting a brutal takedown of her rumored fallout with Blake Lively, only to be met with something far more surprising.

Whispers of tension between Swift and Lively began swirling in late 2024. Reports suggested the longtime friends had drifted apart after Taylor’s name was dragged into Blake’s ongoing legal battle with her "It Ends With Us" co-star and director, Justin Baldoni. For months, speculation painted the picture of a broken friendship. Swifties prepared themselves for what they thought would be the inevitable: a sharp-edged diss track targeting her so-called “ex-BFF.” But instead of venom, “Cancelled!” delivers compassion.

Whispers of tension between Swift and Lively began swirling in late 2024.© GC Images
Whispers of tension between Swift and Lively began swirling in late 2024.

Lyrics That Hint At Healing

In the chorus, Swift lays down the line: “At least you know exactly who your friends are / They’re the ones with matching scars.” Rather than burn bridges, the billionaire songstress seems to acknowledge the resilience of a friendship that has endured public scrutiny, personal challenges, and misunderstandings. By invoking the imagery of “matching scars,” Swift positions herself and Lively as battle-tested allies rather than adversaries.

The track continues to blend themes of loyalty, cancel culture, and resilience. Swift sings: “Good thing I like my friends cancelled / I like ’em cloaked in Gucci and in scandal / Like my whiskey sour / And poison thorny flowers.”

These details read less like shade and more like affectionate acknowledgment.© GC Images
These details read less like shade and more like affectionate acknowledgment.

Fans were quick to decode the references. The “poison thorny flowers” lyric nods directly to Blake’s florist character Lily Bloom in "It Ends With Us," while “whiskey sour” seems to tip a hat to Blake’s real-life business venture, Betty Booze. These details read less like shade and more like affectionate acknowledgment, proof that Swift isn’t erasing Blake from her story, but embracing her messiness.

A Song About Cancel Culture… With A Personal Twist

The genius of “Cancelled!” lies in how it broadens a personal narrative into a cultural commentary. Swift isn’t just talking about Blake; she’s unpacking what it means to live in a world where public figures are cheered one day and torn down the next.

By admitting she prefers her friends “cancelled,” Swift reframes scandal as a sign of authenticity. Instead of distancing herself from Lively’s controversies, she seems to suggest solidarity with those navigating similar storms. Rather than feeding the drama, Swift chose to spin a narrative of forgiveness and enduring connection. 

Instead of distancing herself from Lively’s controversies, she seems to suggest solidarity.© GC Images
Instead of distancing herself from Lively’s controversies, she seems to suggest solidarity.

Taylor Swift could have used “Cancelled!” to dig into old wounds, but the song is about redefining friendship in the glare of fame. And in typical Swift fashion, she turned speculation into storytelling, leaving fans dissecting every lyric while quietly celebrating a reconciliation no one saw coming.

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