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Melania Trump's nickname is 'terrible,' Donald Trump says: 'It reminds me that I’m president'

Melania, meanwhile, was on the other side of the country at the Children’s National Hospital.


Daniel Neira
Senior Writer
JULY 8, 2025 2:56 PM EDT

During a recent stop in Iowa, President Donald Trump offered an unexpected glimpse into his private life and the name he affectionately uses for his wife, Melania Trump.

Speaking at a “Salute to America” event on July 3, Trump paused his remarks on military enlistment to recount a recent conversation with the First Lady.

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“I remember saying to our great First Lady,” he said, then laughed. “I call her ‘First Lady,’ isn’t it terrible?” Trump explained that even in their most intimate moments, including just before bed, he keeps the formal title in place.

“I say, ‘Good night, First Lady, my darling,’ because it reminds me that I’m president. That’s why.” The revelation sparked laughs at the event but also raised eyebrows online. Trump doubled down, however, saying he commented on a discussion about the military's struggles with recruitment.

President Donald Trump and First Lady Melania Trump arrive for the Liberty inaugural ball © JIM WATSON
President Donald Trump and First Lady Melania Trump arrive for the Liberty inaugural ball

“I said, ‘First Lady, it’s terrible. Nobody wants to join our military force.’” Melania, meanwhile, was on the other side of the country, spending time with young patients at the Children’s National Hospital in Washington, D.C.

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President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump arrive at the signing ceremony for the TAKE IT DOWN Act

That same day, she decorated a healing garden with kids, handed out goodie bags with teddy bears in "Be Best" T-shirts, and even introduced a new flower: the 'External Flame' yellow rose donated by the White House. She also shared a light moment when asked if she liked golf as much as her husband.

President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump walked the red carpet at the Kennedy Center© Win McNamee
President Donald Trump and first lady Melania Trump walked the red carpet at the Kennedy Center

“No, I don't play golf,” she laughed, “but I used to.” Melania’s Fourth of July plans included joining Trump at the South Lawn to host a military picnic and watch fireworks. Afterward, the couple was expected to retreat to their Bedminster estate in New Jersey.

Just before heading to Iowa, Trump and Melania met freed Gaza hostage Edan Alexander in the Oval Office. Trump said Melania had taken a special interest in the hostages. “The First Lady, it was very important to her,” he told the Alexander family.

President Donald Trump and First Lady Melania Trump arrive to the Commander-In-Chief inaugural ball © The Washington Post
President Donald Trump and First Lady Melania Trump arrive to the Commander-In-Chief inaugural ball

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