In a celebrity culture built on oversharing, Brad Pitt and Ines de Ramon are doing something almost radical. They are keeping things calm, private, and intentionally low-key. Three years into their relationship, the pair are genuinely solid. According to sources speaking to Us Weekly, Pitt, 61, and de Ramon, 32, are “still going strong and very committed” to each other despite never sharing splashy social media posts or making loud appearances.
One source explains that de Ramon has zero interest in chasing the spotlight, something Pitt deeply admired from the start. After decades of being one of the most recognizable faces on Earth, the appeal of normalcy cannot be overstated. A second insider confirms that the couple intentionally keeps their relationship out of public view. When they are not working, they try to live as normally as possible.
For Pitt, this is a sharp contrast from past relationships that unfolded under intense global scrutiny. With de Ramon, the energy is calmer, more grounded, and refreshingly adult.
Big Steps Taken, Without the Pressure of Marriage
Since first being linked in late 2022, Pitt and de Ramon have still hit several major relationship milestones. They have traveled internationally together, made a red carpet debut, and moved in together last year. These are not small steps, especially for someone who has lived so much of his life in the public eye.
Yet despite their commitment, sources say marriage is not on the agenda. “They aren’t interested in getting married and are on the same page about that,” one insider shares. Another adds that there are no wedding plans and no rush. They are happy exactly where they are.
Both Pitt and de Ramon have already experienced marriage. Pitt was married to Jennifer Aniston from 2000 to 2005 and later to Angelina Jolie from 2014 to 2019. He shares six children with Jolie: Maddox, Pax, Zahara, Shiloh, and twins Knox and Vivienne. De Ramon was previously married to “The Vampire Diaries” actor Paul Wesley from 2019 to 2024.
Healing, Growth, and a Healthier Brad Pitt
Perhaps the most striking part of this story is how much Pitt has changed in recent years. According to sources, he has done significant personal work since his highly publicized and emotionally draining divorce from Jolie. One insider says Pitt is in a “great headspace” and more at peace than he has been in years. His career is thriving, his personal life feels balanced, and de Ramon has played a meaningful role in that healing.
“She has brought him a lot of healing,” the source notes. Since de Ramon moved in and fully settled into their shared home, their dynamic has only grown stronger. They are described as a good duo, which might be the most quietly romantic phrase of all.
Even as Pitt remains involved in a complex legal dispute with Jolie over their Château Miraval winery in France, sources say he handles the stress differently now. Another insider told the publications that Brad is the calmest and healthiest he has been in years, and Ines is a great influence on him.