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Can Demi Lovato be one of Selena Gomez’s bridesmaids? Where their friendship stands today


In 2009, their friendship hit its peak when they co-starred in a Disney Channel original movie


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Shirley GomezSenior Writer
SEPTEMBER 17, 2025 2:28 PM EDT

Fans might be scratching their heads with a question that feels like a throwback to the Disney Channel golden era: could Demi Lovato be standing by Selena Gomez’s side as a bridesmaid when she marries Benny Blanco?

This isn’t just wild fanfiction. It’s rooted in some heartwarming moments that recently played out in the public eye. Let’s break down the history, the friendship, and the reasons why a reunion at the altar isn’t as far-fetched as it sounds.

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Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato in 2008.

A Disney Friendship That Started It All

Before the world knew them as powerhouse vocalists and multi-hyphenate stars, Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato were just two kids starring on "Barney & Friends" in 2001. From there, they navigated the whirlwind of Disney Channel stardom—Selena with "Wizards of Waverly Place," Demi with "Sonny With a Chance" and "Camp Rock."

In 2009, their friendship hit its peak when they co-starred in the Disney Channel original movie "Princess Protection Program." Fans still reminisce about their red carpet photos from that era, where the two looked inseparable.

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Could Demi have a role in the ceremony?

Distance, Growth, and Mutual Respect

Like many childhood friendships, theirs went through ups and downs. Fame, personal struggles, and individual career paths created distance. Still, they’ve both spoken with deep respect about each other in recent years, hinting that while their friendship has evolved, the bond has never truly broken.

Just last month, Selena mentioned Demi on the "Therapuss" podcast, saying it was “good to see them all do their thing,” referring to her fellow Disney alums like Zendaya, Miley Cyrus, and the Jonas Brothers. It was a small nod, but it carried a lot of warmth.

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At one point, Selena, Miley Cyrus, the Jonas Brothers, and Demi were inseparable.

Demi clearly felt the love. "On Watch What Happens Live" this week, she lit up when asked about Selena’s comments. “It was really, really sweet,” Demi said. “I couldn’t be happier for her. She’s engaged. I just wish her the best.”

Why the Bridesmaid Buzz Is Real

Selena Gomez’s engagement to Benny Blanco in December 2024 was already headline-grabbing. Add to that the release of their joint album, "I Said I Love You First," in March, and fans are convinced this wedding will be a star-studded event.

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Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco got engaged in December 2024.

Could Demi have a role in the ceremony? It might be too soon to know, but it makes sense, given their recent public admiration; it feels like the two are reconnecting.

 Demi recently tied the knot with Jordan “Jutes” Lutes in Santa Barbara, which gives her a fresh perspective on wedding traditions and roles. And having her childhood best friend as part of her bridal party would be a nostalgic nod to their shared beginnings.

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Demi Lovato looked straight out of a fairytale as she tied the knot to Jordan Lutes.

Of course, weddings are deeply personal, and Selena’s bridal party will likely include family and close friends from her current circle. Still, the thought of Demi in bridesmaid satin has fans daydreaming about a Disney Channel reunion at the altar.

For now, Demi hasn’t hinted at being part of Selena’s bridal squad, but her genuine support speaks volumes. At the very least, fans can expect her to celebrate the milestone with a smile, whether from the front row or cheering from afar.

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The thought of Demi in bridesmaid satin has fans daydreaming about a Disney Channel reunion at the altar.

While it is unknown if Demi is even invited to the wedding, Paris Hilton is among the first celebrities confirmed to attend the celebration. During the VMAs red carpet, Paris and Nicky Hilton shared the news by accident while being interviewed by Access Hollywood. The sisters chose the weddings they'd like to attend in the near future, including Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, Dua Lipa and Calum Turner, and Gomez and Blanco. 

 

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